Wednesday, July 06, 2005
Judgemental-ism (Jon & Dawne, 2005)
It's weird how the people who don't really know you very well tend to be the least judgemental and the people who know you very well tend to judge you in ways you wonder if they really truly knew you. People who don't know you very well usually aren't very judgemental on their first few meetings with you because they are worried they may judge you wrongly than the people who know you but in fact they don't. I guess people change everyday, like a slow maturation process, new ideas, experiences, changing mindsets. even though the changes may not be a drastic one, it still changes slowly, subtly. But people assume you're always the same as they knew you, generally because i guess the basic character of a person rarely changes drastically and we as humans don't really like change very much, to have to adapt would be too much of a trouble. That's why they say that even in married couples there are always new stuff to find out about each other because as we grow, we mature, we change. Yes nothing much in life is constant.
Today's also mother's mouth problems day, i'm not the only one with a mum who has some gum problem. Anyway this afternoon she bought this jade thingy that you can place on your pillow to improve blood circulation. If you remember last night she had bleeding gums and had an injection to stop it, twas all fine til after she woke up from a 2hr nap, yep u got it, sleeping on the jade-thingamajig that improves your blood circulation. It was quite funny. I know she was in pain and all but i couldn't resist it. So now she knows that the jade thingy works, and it sure works darn well. I thought the saleswoman was trying to swindle her of her money, i guess she wasn't. *shrugs*
Unknown at 2:26 am