Saturday, June 18, 2005
I wanna run your life
It is always very easy to impose on others the way u live your life, especially on your friends. When you think that you guys were so similar before, now we should be more similar than before. especially when humans tend to hang around people who are similar to them. Sadly, we forget that nobody likes to be told how to run their own lives when it comes to the situation. And i've been guilty of it several times. There may be reasons why your friend behaves that way, but u never did bother to understand. You insisted that she was wayward, wierd, said hurtful things and leaving her in the cold just because she was brought up differently, thinks differently and does things different from you. Human dynamics and power of the situation. Don't know if you guys have ever heard of the
milgram's experiment where normal people were instructed to give lethal doses of electric shock to a harmless person and 65% of the subjects actually did it. People will give in to social situations to conform, blend in and everything else, and i am a victim as well. I'm only mortal.
Unknown at 2:18 pm