Wednesday, August 25, 2004
Do we alwez remember to be kind to our families? Imagine people who loves you to bits always gets screamed at by you, taken for granted, and basically treated less than how you treat your friends. Not very nice eh, but i guess lots of us are really guilty of it. How many times have u yelled at your parents because u didn't see eye to eye. But if u didn't see eye to eye with ur frenz you'd most prob try to reason it out. Maybe because we feel that since they've been with us like for our lifetime, they should know us better. Well most of us just aren't psychic i guess.
And after the tiff that i had with my mom the other day i kinda realised that we alwez take quarrels at face value, we alwez feel that ok so he/she's unhappy with Topic A so we quarrel non stop about it. But usually the crux of the quarrel is that what's causing the person to be unhappy with this so called Topic A? Underlying feelings that were not spelt out, so sometimes maybe we need to try to drag out the underlying reasons rather than quarrel about it at face value. Anyway you guys are already quarreling might as well just make sure everything's clarified. Am i making sense? Or am i talking in circles? nvm.
Walked past a funeral earlier on, wonder how many of us have been taught by our parents to look away, well my mother taught me that anyway. But sometimes maybe u shd just take a peek and see how the family members grieve for their loved one who just passed on. I'd think that it'll reveal how the family was like, as in were they close knit, did they treasure each other, etc. Went to a funeral of my grand uncle once and my dad commented that what's the point of crying the roof down when you didn't treasure him then. It's already too late. Yeah, TOO LATE. how often do we not notice that. but just cared about our small little worlds.
How people treat you is directly proportional to how you treat yourself. I.E. If you think you're a piece of trash that ought to be thrown around, you will allow people to do that to you and not stand up for yourself when people end up doing that to you. So increase your self worth babes! Yeah like L'Oreal You're so worth it.
Went jogging earlier on it was a thought provoking session that's what's up with all the rambligns above. But it's good i feel as though i've cleared out a cabinet of thougts. Coz in actual fact i think i think a lot, but it never made it to the blog, because by then i would haf forgotten about it. anyway it's good to run, haven't ran for some time, at the rate i'm going i dun think my aim for any of those 10km run will be accomplished, well i could alwez run for the sake of the goodie bag, how singaporean. lol. anyway yeah GOAL: 10km run next year and hopefully half marathon.
Please remind me as and when and encourage me, lol, i do get lazy at times, or rather all the time. hahah. anywayz sleepy sleepy. Gotta sleep earlier and maybe i'd have better skin coupled with the switching back to garnier facial foam. Not that you'd wanna noe anyway but i like to rant about these kinda stuff. ahhaa.
Unknown at 9:23 pm